just-graysexual:

Hey Anon,

AVEN is always a great site. They have great information. Not just for asexuals but for anyone who identifies under the ace umbrella. They also have a great forum with many related discussions in regards to asexuality and other ace orientations.

The Asexuality Archive is a great resource. They have many articles and helpful advice.

The Thinking Asexual also is a great resource with many articles and helpful advice.

DemiGray has a great blog. Though it’s more focused on demisexuality, DemiGray themselves are demi-graysexual. And I’m pretty sure they have a forum too.

And there are also several other tumblr ace blogs that post about the asexual spectrum and offer great advice. Here are just a few: here, here, here, here, here, and here. There are many other ace friendly blogs out there so keep looking around on tumblr.

I don’t know what tests you have taken, but the Kinsey Scale and the Storms Model are the popular ones. And you may have already found some version of these tests online.

And the best resource will always be yourself. Listen to your feelings and thoughts. Take time to understand what your attractions are and who they work. Keep doing your research and keep searching inside yourself. If you feel like gray asexual is something that you can relate too, you just may very well be gray ace.

Good luck, Anon. I wish you the best as you continue your journey. Keep researching, keep questioning, keep wondering. You are doing great. Be patient and take your time with everything. Figuring out your sexuality is not easy. If you have any questions or need to talk feel free to stop by anytime and I’ll help the best way that I can.